Saturday, May 17, 2025

AI & Pop Culture: What Sci-Fi Got Right and Wrong










Lately, I’ve been incredibly inspired by all the conversations swirling around artificial intelligence and its impact, its possibilities, and, yes, it's a little chaotic. With San José State University launching a new Human-Centered AI Certificate program in Fall 2025, the excitement around responsible, ethical AI is growing fast and it’s not just for computer scientists anymore, it can actually be for us thinkers, creatives, storytellers, and even researchers. I have always been fascinated with the way that AI technology intersects with human emotion.

My obsession with AI didn’t start with the latest chatbot or algorithm update, no it actually started at the movies. I was a teenager that I stood in line on opening night for T2 and absolutely loved it. There are many kinds of different AI depictions in the movies. There's the cold and calculated robot overlords. The sympathetic androids. The world-ending self-aware networks that make us wonder, hmmm could this actually come true? For decades, sci-fi has been trying to tell us something about AI and about ourselves. While some of it is wildly off the mark and made up, some of it hits shockingly close to home and even more so now that we really do interact with AI in every day life. 

What Sci-Fi Got Right About AI

  • Emotions, attachment, and human loneliness — In Her, a man falls in love with an operating system. Sounds far-fetched, right? Until you realize how many people already talk to their phones more than to other humans. (Hi Siri, Hi Alexa)

  • Algorithmic bias and power imbalanceEx Machina and Black Mirror have warned us about what happens when AI is developed without ethics or oversight. Spoiler alert: it’s not pretty.

  • Dependence on automation — Have you ever seen the movie Wall-E? Yeah. Real talk: we’re just a few food delivery apps away from that reality.

  • AI as a reflection of human fear and control — Sci-fi nails how AI often mirrors the worst parts of humans like when machines go bad in the movies, it’s usually because humans taught them how to be bad. Poor machines. 


What Sci-Fi Got Wrong (But We Still Love It)

  • Instant sentience — Sorry, but AI doesn't just wake up one day, achieve enlightenment, and start planning world domination before breakfast. (LOL here's looking at you, Terminator.)

  • Unrealistic robotics — Clunky humanoid robots with glowing eyes are fun for dramatic effect, but real AI today is more likely to consist of a predictive search bar and not a metal skeleton with bad intentions.

  • Good vs. Evil tropes — Ever wonder why AI in sci-fi is usually either the savior or the villain? In real life, we know that it’s messier, blurrier, and honestly not that easy to figure out.
















Personal Story - Love N' Robots

Confession time: I was so obsessed with robots that I created a curated list of YA books called Love N' Robots. That might’ve been the moment I realized how drawn I am to the emotional side of tech, not the specs and circuitry, but the way we feel about machines. Do we fear them? Love them? Treat them like tools or like friends? This emotional complexity is something I still carry into every conversation I have about AI today.

If you're watching WarGames and wondering if a teenager could really hack into the Pentagon, the truth remains: Pop culture got us ready for AI before we even realized it.

Now that AI is here, quietly woven into our every day routines and lives, we have to ask: What kind of future does this hold for us?

If you share my love for movies with AI let me know. If you can't stand them, well let me know that too. I'd love to hear your thoughts. 

Stay tuned for more AI musings,

the Compassionate Librarian

Thursday, May 8, 2025

The Soundtrack of Your Life: How Music Connects Us to Memory, Identity, and Healing












🎧 I've had music on my mind a lot lately. Every time I hear a song that holds memories for me I am transported right back to the place and time I first heard that song. Maybe it’s the raw emotion of a song that played during a pivotal chapter in my life, or maybe it's the joy of a track that lit up my serotonin that made me have a perfect day. To me, music is more than just background noise, it’s a living entity that holds our memories, our struggles, our transformations. Have you ever felt that feeling inside when a song you like starts playing and your body starts moving? That's it! Music makes us come alive. 

Today's world moves so fast and asks so much of us, and music gently invites us to take a pause. I love music because it helps us to remember and also to feel. 

Music as Memory

It’s no coincidence that a single chord can bring us to tears or laughter. Our brains store music differently than words, embedding it deep into the emotional center of our memory. The song playing when you lost a loved one, the mixtape from your first love, the lullaby you sang to your kids or your niece or nephew. All of this lives on, long after the music has stopped and there'll be more music to come to store even more memories. Sometimes our own thoughts and ideas get buried beneath our memories. Revisiting music from our past can be a gentle way to reconnect with who we were and what we've survived. I know it does for me.  

Music as Identity

Our playlists say more about u than we realize. The angst of our teen years. The empowerment of our survival or the self-care we are needing right in this moment. Maybe we need quiet, acoustic tracks for a bit of rest. Maybe we need pumped up jams to get us going. Maybe we're feeling sad or melancholy and we need to commiserate with our old friend music. For me, there are many songs that take me back. James Blunt You're Beautiful was playing when I had my last visit with my amazing grandmother. I'll never forget that song and it always reminds me of her and how we'll never be together again. 

A few years ago, I lost my step-father, a truly one of a kind father to me and beloved grandfather to my kids. It broke my heart that he and my mom had to face the harsh reality that his cancer was not going to go away and they weren't going to be together. As I wallowed in this reality as well, I kept hearing the song A Thousand Years by Christina Perry o the radio. Even today, I can't listen to this song without feeling the pain of losing him. The pain for our family, my mom, and because the world lost one of its kindest humans. 

As we grow and experience milestones in our lives, our personal soundtrack continues to grow as well. Sometimes, it hurts and sometimes it brings joy to rediscover the songs we once loved. This reminds me of a dark time in my life and for real, my soundtrack was extremely dismal at that time. A few years later I listened to that playlist and I realized that it was a dark time and I was struggling, but these songs got me through that tough time and through that transition in my life. I evolved over time and music helped me to pave that way to a renewed sense of being. I think I mentioned in a previous post that I listened to TheFatRat on repeat while I was writing my book. That soundtrack had so much energy and power and it really kept me going. I love that I can always go back and tap into that energy at any time. 

Music gives us permission to show up exactly as we are: fierce, uncertain, joyful, messy, resilient.

What songs are you feeling right now? I've got a few. Otis Redding's Dreams to Remember is playing right now as I write this. Earlier this morning listened to Djo's End of Beginning on repeat for a while. I've been seeing signs in my life everywhere that I need to slow down, stop and take a breather, and rejuvenate and I really need to listen to these messages from the universe. And just like that, the song Turn, Turn, Turn pops up on my player. Well, isn't that a great message in real-time!

Music as Self-Care

When the world feels loud and overwhelming, music can offer us a safety net. It lets us scream without making a sound (unless we want to scream out loud to Alanis's You Oughta Know). Music lifts us when we need courage, and holds us when we need comfort. For me, music has been a companion during hard days in the library (I have a playlist just for my library and it starts out with Devil Town by Tony Lucca). I am no stranger to making playlists. I made multiple song lists during my battle with cancer. And after, continuous soundtracks for the healing process and going forward. Looking back at my Youtube channel, I have made at least one playlist every year for the last ten years. These playlists filled with songs that speak to me in many different ways have helped me to cry, breathe, celebrate, and find hope again. 

Whether it’s a morning coffee track or a work out playlist or a calming bedtime list of songs that soothe your soul, your playlist can be a powerful self-care ritual. I would highly recommend using the app Shazam to capture song artists and titles when you hear a new song you like. 












If you could make a playlist of five songs that calm or encourage you, what would they be? If you make the list, all you need to do is press play when you need a little balance or a calming session. When I'm feeling nostalgic I look for hidden gems in my life's soundtrack. The songs that live in our minds and hearts aren’t just echoes from the past, they’re signposts. We can look at them as reminders, anchors, and many times they are lifelines.

So, what’s on your soundtrack? What songs tell the story of who you’ve been - and - who are you becoming?

Whether you need to cry, celebrate, heal, or just breathe, there is music out there waiting just for you. Go find it. Or, let it find you 😊 

I'm going to share my favorite morning playlist that I just happened to stumble across one day about a year ago. It changed my life! 

Morning Coffee ☕ Happy Music to Start Your Day


Wishing you rest, resilience, and rhythm,

🎶 the Compassionate Librarian 🎶

Saturday, May 3, 2025

From Joseph Campbell to the Dewey Decimal System: Becoming Your Own Hero

A Hero Within All Of Us






































I first encountered the work of Joseph Campbell when I was working on my humanities degree at John F. Kennedy University. If you're not familiar with Campbell, I'll tell you a little bit about him. He was a brilliant scholar of mythology, comparative religion, and storytelling. He devoted his life to studying the myths and legends of cultures around the world and discovered something extraordinary, a shared pattern beneath them all, the Hero’s Journey. Campbell’s books, like The Hero with a Thousand Faces, revealed how stories of transformation, courage, and self-discovery are universal and they show how each of us, in our own way, has a calling to live out a journey.

I remember once sharing my excitement about studying Campbell’s work with a colleague. She smiled and said, "I want to be Joseph Campbell when I grow up." We both laughed because, of course, she was already a grown adult. Remembering that now, and how that moment has stayed with me is how much of an impact that Campbell’s work has had on me over the years. Campbell’s ideas aren’t confined to just the classroom or to ancient myths. His work transcends time and space, and it reminds me that the Hero’s Journey can be seen in everything we do especially when we follow our calling.

Speaking of callings, if you work in a public library, you're familiar with another grand design, the Dewey Decimal System. Here’s a scenario I’m sure you can relate with. Have you ever stood among the stacks, surrounded by books on every subject imaginable? There’s science and art, poetry and psychology, history and fiction and being surrounded by all of this magical content have you ever felt that ominous yet thrilling sense of possibility? That feeling that you’ve entered a different world? A world where you can choose your own destiny, chart your own path and wander endlessly through realms of knowledge and ready to find out where they lead?

Awesome! Next, cue the Dewey Decimal system. Let’s look at this design as not just a way to organize books. It’s our labyrinth, a living, breathing map of human thought and imagination. It’s discovery in pure form and ready to open up our eyes and change our lives. Each time we read a book we are opening up our minds and and if you feel the pull of adventure, you are already on your own Hero’s Journey.

Each call number, each shelf, each quiet aisle is a path through the great labyrinth of learning. Every book is a clue and each book holds not only the knowledge of its author, but also the quiet footprints of those who came before us. Sometimes, if you’re lucky, you’ll find a note left behind in a book. It could be a scribbled thought, a note of encouragement. a pressed flower, a folded piece of paper forgotten between the pages. in that small, unexpected moment, you realize: you are not walking this journey alone.

Someone else has been here.
Someone else has wondered, hoped, grieved, and dreamed right where you are standing now. The labyrinth of the library is vast, but it is never empty.

The Hero’s Journey and Why It Matters

The Hero’s Journey, as Joseph Campbell described it, is a timeless pattern that shows up in myths, stories, and even in our own lives. At its heart, it’s about answering a call to something greater than we even know, stepping into the unknown, facing trials and doubts, and ultimately returning transformed, ready to share what you’ve learned with others.

You can see the Hero’s Journey everywhere from ancient myths to modern stories like Star Wars and The Lord of the Rings. Luke Skywalker definitely has his call to adventure. Frodo Baggins big calling is leaving the safety of the Shire. Each character faces fears, meets mentors, navigates dark times, and emerges stronger, and most of all, forever changed.

I want to point out thought, the Hero’s Journey isn’t just for epic heroes in faraway galaxies or fantasy lands, it is for anyone that chooses to go on this journey, and well sometimes it’s not even a choice, it just happens and you find yourself following along. 

When I think about library work, I realize it mirrors the Hero’s Journey in so many ways. Each day we serve the public, navigate endless systems of knowledge, adapt to new challenges, and guide others through the labyrinth of information and discovery. We are constantly learning, evolving, and helping others find their way.  We are just like the heroes in the stories in our books.

That’s why I believe that being called to library work isn't just a career. It’s a journey, a real hero's journey. Just like any great journey, it changes you. Maybe not all at once, but more like one step, one story, one shared moment at a time.

Let’s step into this labyrinth together and see how the Hero’s Journey unfolds, especially for those of us called to this work.

Walking the Hero’s Journey Through Library Work

The Call to Adventure

The Call often comes softly. It can start with a fascination with books. A love for learning. A pull toward service and connection. It might start with a visit to a library that feels strangely like coming home. It might start with a quiet voice inside that says: This is where you belong. I swear this really happened to me. I was on a completely different path and was planning on becoming a professor when I started working in a public library. I remember when it hit me I was just sitting there and I was like - this is my place and these are my people. It was the most amazing feeling!

Refusal of the Call

This stage is a natural one. You start to ask yourself so many questions and they’re all really valid. You might think to yourself, "Is this a good career move?" or  "Can I really handle this work?" Sometimes doubt will creep in, but just remember that refusing the call is part of the journey or the path that you will take. What will happen is that the call will eventually demand that you take a step forward intentionally, and at that point, you will know. You won’t be able to deny that the work you do in the library does not matter and that you must carry it forward evenmore. I found this to be true as well. I knew the library was my calling, but I just didn’t have the strength or the money to go back to school and get my master’s in library science, so I put it off for several years until I was ready to take it on. When I finally started my first semester in my MLIS program, I felt strong and comfortable and happy with this step I had taken. My journey to the next level in my story had begun!

Meeting the Mentor

Mentors appear when you need them most. They can be Professors. Managers. Fellow library workers, anyone who believe in you and they will believe in you before you even believe in yourself. I love mentors because they hand you the keys, maps, flashlights, and encouragement for the dark corners ahead. Believe me you’re gonna need this! I talk about my mentor all of the time in the classes I teach. She was my friend first and then she became my supervisor later. She was a supporter of me and my biggest fan. I love that! Everyone needs to have a fan of the work they do. Aside from that, my mentor taught me so many things on how to handle difficult situation and difficult people. We laughed a lot and she always had wise words of wisdom for me. One thing she told me that has stayed with me for over twenty years is when I thanked her for being my mentor, she told me that one day I will be the mentor and I will carry that on and that is the best way to thank her. Over the years, I had a few more mentors that I have to say I am so thankful for. When you find them, hang on to them because they are gold. 

Crossing the First Threshold

You step fully into the world: Here’s a few ideas on how you can cross that first threshold. 

  • Starting library school. This could be a technical program for Library Technology or go for the master’s MLIS. It’s your choice, but what a great way to boost your library career.

  • Accepting your first library job. Yes! If you’re like me, you’ll start working in libraries well before you get a librarian degree. It was the best experience ever. I started as a library clerk, then library assistant, then once I got my degree I became a librarian and then stepped up to library manager. These were all milestones in my hero’s journey.

  • Running your first program. I’ll never forget running my first library program. It’s like you go through the seven levels of hell to get to one of a program and then it’s all over. The planning and prepping is good, I always enjoy that. It’s the day of the program that sends me inside out. I start to doubt everything I’ve ever known. What if no one shows up? What if they don’t like what I’ve planned? What this and what that, it’s a frightening time leading up to the program. I’ve gotten better over the years, but sometimes fear can get the better of us. My best advice is to promote your program in advance and get it out on social media. Make flyers and get them out there and you’ll be sure to have people show up. Everything else will flow once it starts. I always feel such a magical feeling after a program because all of the thoughts and ideas you have come to life.

If you can make it through these challenges, you are no longer just admiring the labyrinth from afar, you are walking it now. Just remember you can do it!

Tests, Allies, and Enemies

These challenges are real:

  • Technology failures

  • Difficult patrons

  • Bureaucratic obstacles

But so are the allies:

  • Supportive colleagues

  • Grateful patrons

  • The tiny victories that build your courage

Approach to the Inmost Cave

Here you will take on bigger responsibilities. You may focus on leadership, advocacy, or innovation. It’s totally terrifying. It demands everything from you, but it shapes who you are becoming. I have a story to share here. I once checked out a book with a note left inside of it. The note read, “The cave you fear to enter hold the treasure you seek” Now this is a famous quote from Joseph Campbell and talk about the universe reaching out and tapping me on the shoulder! Really thinking deeper about this quote, it makes you realize that you really have to go into that dark cave and find yourself. Then once you have done that, the real treasure will appear. It’s not tangible, it’s the essence that is made up of you, the experience you have, the inner most darkness you have gone through, it’s your fears and your hopes all summed up.

The Ordeal

Every journey has a dark night of the soul theme. It could be about dealing with compassion fatigue or getting a terrible health diagnosis. It could be a time when you feel the whole world is against you. Some ordeals could be:

  • Burnout from working in the library

  • Setbacks in your personal life

  • Moments when you doubt your calling or where you are in your life

But here’s the key with this stage of the Hero’s Journey. Within the darkness, you will discover your own fire and this is what makes you grow stronger, wiser, steadier than before.














Reward (Seizing the Sword)

Because of everything that you have experienced, you emerge from your ordeal or trials with new wisdom:

  • Confidence in your voice

  • Pride in your impact

  • A deeper sense of purpose

You carry the metaphorical sword: knowledge, compassion, and resilience.

The Road Back

Here’s where you can start to relax a bit. You have the done the work and followed the journey and now it’s time to return to your everyday work. This may seem passive, but you are forever changed. You begin to mentor others. You build stronger connections. You create spaces of hope and belonging. You rise above the mundane and take on the battles that come with ease. 

Resurrection

You are reborn not just as a library worker,  but as a guardian of stories, a keeper of journeys, a builder of community. I love this so much. Thinking about all of the stories we can tell to our coworkers and friends. Sharing the highlights and the lows of the library, we can offer others a glimpse inside the work we do. However, now we can do this with a purpose. For me, my resurrection was when I became an instructor. I brought myself back by offering what I know and have experienced over the years to my students. I love that I am able to share what what I know with our future librarians!

Return with the Elixir

So, we are here now at the endo of journey. We’ve made it through all of the obstacles, found ourselves, and came out with a lot of strength and knowledge. Now it’s time to share what we have learned. We can help others find their path and most importantly, we can leave a trail of light in the labyrinth. Because that place can be very dark for someone new to the landscape. Let’s light the way for the next library travelers to follow.

Closing Reflection

Standing in the stacks, it’s easy to forget that every book, every call number, every well-worn path between the shelves holds the echo of countless journeys and countless readers who have picked up books and read them long before us. Thinking about this and looking at Joseph Campbel’s work, it reminds me that the Hero’s Journey belongs to all of us. In turn, the Library reminds me that there is a map that is already here waiting for us to walk it, lose ourselves in it, and find ourselves again.

The library labyrinth is vast, but it is never empty. The journey can be long and/or perilous for some, but the reason I’m writing in this blog is to try and provide some support and let library workers know that you are not alone. If we can build a network together, we can support each through our own hero’s journey. Believe me when I say that sometimes it’s hard to share your own story, but I want you to know that your story matters.

A few last things I would like to say is that you don’t need to have recognition from anyone, especially anyone that does not appreciate you. You can be your own hero and also know that there are many library workers out there that are in the same space as you. I am one of them and I hope you will remember as you move through the library stacks, answer patrons calls and questions, and connect with your community that you are doing the best you can and following your calling or your journey and shaping yourself through service, compassion, and knowledge.

I never knew that one day I would become the guide or mentor, but now that I’m here I am loving it. 

Take a moment to reflect:

  • Have you heard the call to adventure and answered it?

  • What obstacles have you overcome that made you stronger?

  • Who have been your mentors and allies along the way?

  • Have you already become a mentor for others?

  • What “elixir” or wisdom or hope are you carrying back to share with others?

One thing that I also love is that the journey is always ongoing. The library is ever changing and that means that the labyrinth unfolds one step at a time.

🐉Keep walking
📚Keep wondering
✨Keep believing

Because whether you realize it or not, the library is full of heroes and you my friend are one of them!


Stay magical,

the Compassionate Librarian






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