Monday, March 24, 2025

Dark Times For Libraries: Keeping the Lights On Together












This is my twentieth year working in a library. I've worked in public and school libraries, and in that time, I’ve seen libraries evolve, adapt, and rise to meet the needs of their communities over and over again. I’ve seen how libraries transform lives, provide safety nets, and bring people together in ways that are quite profound.

๐Ÿ•ฏ️I’m not sure I’ve ever seen a darker time for libraries than right now๐Ÿ•ฏ️

Between budget cuts, the changes with IMLS, and the growing uncertainty about our future, many of us are feeling the weight of it all. It’s a lot to carry and if you're feeling stressed or overwhelmed about it, you’re not alone.

Libraries are often seen as the hub of the community. Did you know that libraries can:

  • Offer a safe place for unhoused individuals to rest, recharge, and feel human

  • Provide free internet, printing, and access to technology many can’t afford at home

  • Help with job applications, resumes, and unemployment benefits

  • Guide people through complicated forms, housing applications, and social services

  • Answer reference questions, from simple curiosities to urgent health or legal concerns

  • Share accurate, reliable information in an age of misinformation

  • Offer programs that support early literacy, workforce development, mental health, and more

  • Welcome families, teens, seniors, and everyone in between—no questions asked

  • Connect people to the world of books, imagination, learning, and lifelong curiosity



















The Lake Oswego Library in Oregon helped people get their books by creating their "Librarian is IN" service in the parking lot during the pandemic. Photo courtesy of City of Lake Oswego. 

During the pandemic, many of us were frontline workers. We served our communities at our front doors, sometimes in parking lots like the Lake Oswego Library, and sometimes virtually from our living rooms. Some of us volunteered as disaster workers, answered phones in call centers, distributed supplies, and provided free printing and hotspots for vulnerable populations to help them stay connected. We chatted on the phone with people who just needed a human voice. One woman called simply to hear what was in the collection because she was lonely and missed the sound of someone speaking to her.

My point is that we've never stopped helping and we made it through a very challenging time. We adapted, we pivoted, and we found new ways to serve the public. Because that's what library workers do.

What gives me hope are the people who love and care about libraries. The librarians, the library staff, the volunteers, the patrons, the advocates, the neighbors, our partners, and more. 

I know one thing. Library workers are resilient. When things get hard, we show up and we just keep going. We will figure this out one step at a time.

 











Show Your Support

Here are a few simple ways you can help:

  • Write a note to your local representatives about why libraries matter

  • Post a memory or message on social media using #LibrariesTransform

  • Submit a letter to the editor of your local paper

  • Tell a friend, neighbor, or coworker how the library has impacted your life


How Are You Feeling? Don’t Forget to Practice Self-Care

If all of this feels really heavy, just remember that you’re not alone and you don’t have to carry it alone. When we’re under a lot of stress, taking care of ourselves is very important.

Make sure to find time for rest. Try to reach out for support. Do something kind for yourself today.

If you’re looking for guidance, inspiration, or gentle ways to support your own wellbeing, my self-paced course Self-Care for Library Workers will be launching through the American Library Association's eLearning platform. Stay tuned, it should be coming out very soon!










Want to Talk or Share A Story?

If you’re feeling overwhelmed because of the changes that libraries are facing I’d love to hear from you. Feel free to leave a comment or reach out to me directly at teachingmydream@gmail.com.

We can get through this together, 

the Compassionate Librarian ๐Ÿ’›


Friday, March 21, 2025

The Healing Power of Music: A Soundtrack for Self-Care











There’s something magical about music. A single song can shift your mood, ground your thoughts, or lift your spirits in just a few notes. For me, music has always been one of the simplest—and most powerful—forms of self-care. Whether I’m winding down after a long day, needing a confidence boost, or just looking for something to make me smile, I turn to my personal soundtrack.

Music as a Self-Care Tool

Did you know that listening to music can be a self-care tool? Yes! It can be an awesome self-care tool. You don’t need a fancy playlist (though curating one is part of the fun). All you need is a few songs that really speak to you.

Here are some of the ways music supports emotional and mental well-being:

Calming Songs for Stress Relief

Soft, slow melodies can help lower your heart rate and bring your nervous system back to baseline. Perfect for anxious moments or quiet time. I call this my "Breathe & Reset" playlist.

Power Ballads & Anthems for Strength
Need a pick-me-up before a big presentation or tough conversation? Cue the empowering songs. The ones that make you stand taller, sing louder, and feel unstoppable. My "You’ve Got This" soundtrack is full of them.

Feel-Good Songs for Joy
These are the songs that make you dance in the kitchen, sing in the car, or just smile out of nowhere. I keep a playlist I call "Instant Joy" for those exact moments.

Music simply meets you where you are—and that’s the essence of self-care.

Why Music Works as Self-Care

  • Music reduces stress. Listening to music has been shown to decrease the stress hormone cortisol. According to an article in Harmony & Healing, a study was conducted by the British Academy of Sound that found 74% of participants reported that calming music helped them to reduce anxiety and improve their state of rest, a marker of stress resilience.

  • It boosts your mood. Music activates the brain's reward center, releasing dopamine—the “feel good” chemical. This is especially true for songs that evoke strong emotional memories or have a beat we love.

  • It improves focus and sleep. Certain types of music can improve concentration and even help you fall asleep faster. Research from the National Sleep Foundation found that people who listened to music before bed reported better sleep quality.

  • It connects us to others. Shared playlists, concerts, or even hearing a familiar song in a public place can create a sense of community and belonging—which is a powerful form of emotional support.

  • It encourages movement. Upbeat songs naturally make us want to move, which helps release endorphins and boost our energy levels—even if we’re just dancing around the kitchen.

According to an article by the American Psychological Association, music has played a large part of helping COVID patients with delirium recover. Music's power over our brains is quite phenomenal.













Your Personal Soundtrack = Your Self-Care Toolkit

One of my favorite ways to use music as self-care is to create playlists based on my needs. I went through a long period of distress after having a catastrophic surgery that left me wondering my place in the world. I don't know how I found it or maybe it found me, but the music of German DJ and record producer TheFatRat changed my life. I listened to the soundtrack for in 2021 for at least a year. It got me through my transition in life, through writing my first book, which was laborious and intense. It got me through so much and I will never forget how it makes me feel. I'll share the songs below and what they mean to me and why I love them so much. I realize that TheFatRat may not be your cup of tea, but for me it is a shining light that got me through my darkest days. 

TheFatRat with Anna Yvette & Laura Brehm - Chosen - There's just something special about this song. If you’ve ever needed a reminder that you are stronger than you think—that your voice matters and your path is yours to walk—“Chosen” is that reminder wrapped in music.

TheFatRat feat. Laura Brehm - Mayday - captures the feeling of being on the edge—calling out for help when everything feels like it’s crashing down. It’s a raw and vulnerable track, yet there’s strength woven into every note.

TheFatRat - No No No - are you trying to practice putting up boundaries in your life? This song will help you say no no no. Whether you’re saying no to overworking, toxic relationships, unrealistic expectations, or anything that drains your energy, this track gives you permission to hold your ground.

TheFatRat - Infinite Power - Need a burst of motivation to get you moving, focused, or just fired up to tackle the day? This song is pure energy in audio form.

I could keep going, but these are probably my top favorites.


Different Themes for Musical Self-Care

Breathe & Reset – My go-to for stress, anxiety, or when I just need to calm my nervous system.

You’ve Got This – Powerful songs and energizing anthems that help me show up with confidence and courage.

Instant Joy – The feel-good songs that never fail to lift my spirits and make me smile (or dance in the living room!).











What’s on Your Playlist?

Drop a comment or message me with your favorite self-care songs—and let’s co-create a playlist filled with hope, healing, and harmony, the total self-care package!

Because sometimes, the best way to care for yourself…
is to hit play. 


Wishing you joyful moments and music that moves you!

the Compassionate Librarian

Sunday, March 9, 2025

The Future of Libraries: Breaking Away From Our Restraints












Libraries are evolving faster than ever, adapting to shifting community needs, advancing technology, and an ever-expanding role as busy community hubs. While this transformation is exciting, it also places a large amount of pressure on library workers. Burnout, compassion fatigue, and unrealistic expectations often leave staff feeling overwhelmed. With all of this in mind, what libraries really need to be working toward is a future that fosters a culture of self-compassion and self-care. I believe this shift is exactly what we need to in order to rise up and thrive. I my mind I’ve been calling it a self-care revolution. I myself don’t even know how much longer I can continue to work in a library. I'm feeling so chained down and restricted lately. I’ve spent years balancing heavy workloads, constant changes, and the emotional weight of serving my community while trying not to burn out. At times, it feels like I’m on an island all alone and I’m trying to put out fires and basically just survive each day. I’m sure there are others that feel this way too, in fact I know there are. If we don’t break away from this current culture of unsupportive restriction and move toward a more encouraging and inspiring one we will continue to lose passionate and dedicated staff because of the lack of support and burnout.

Why Self-Compassion Matters in Libraries

Many library workers dedicate themselves to serving the public, often placing the needs of patrons above their own. However, chronic stress and emotional exhaustion can lead to burnout. Taking time to care for yourself is not indulgent, it is something that we all must do. This allows us to acknowledge our own struggles, set realistic boundaries, and recover from the emotional demands of our work in libraries.

A workplace that fosters self-compassion:

  • Encourages staff to take breaks without guilt.

  • Normalizes the emotional toll of public service.

  • Creates an environment where workers feel valued and supported.

Without self-compassion, library workers are at risk of emotional depletion. Prioritizing self-compassion can lead to better job satisfaction, stronger team dynamics, and a healthier work environment overall.

Advocating for Yourself in the Library Workplace

Many library workers struggle with self-advocacy, whether due to hierarchical structures, fear of being seen as a complainer or simply being too overextended to ask for help. However, advocating for yourself is key to long-term sustainability in this field.

Ways to advocate for yourself in the library workplace include:

  • Setting Boundaries – It’s okay to say no to extra tasks beyond your role or capacity. Overextending yourself can be harmful to your mental and/or physical health and it doesn’t serve you or your community if you are overloaded or overwhelmed.

  • Communicate Your Needs Clearly – If workload expectations are unrealistic, speak up. Ask for more support, ask for help adjusting responsibilities or modifying deadlines.

  • Prioritizing Rest and Recovery – Requesting time off or scheduling regular breaks isn’t a luxury—it’s a way to get more rest and better balance in our lives.

  • Seeking Professional Development – Advocate for training and resources that help you to expand your skills and grow, which will enhance your job skills for any future work.

It’s frustrating that library workers are constantly expected to do more and more without any support. We need to advocate for ourselves and prioritizes our wellbeing, we actually have to stand up for ourselves and make our own self-care a priority.

Creating a Supportive Network in the Library

Library work can sometimes feel isolating, especially when dealing with difficult patron interactions or heavy workloads. Building a strong support network helps foster resilience and emotional well-being.

  • Find Your People – Identify colleagues who share your values and commitment to mutual support. Having trusted co-workers to vent to or collaborate with can make challenges more manageable.

  • Encourage Peer Mentorship – Formal or informal mentoring relationships can help staff navigate challenges, gain perspective, and develop new coping strategies.

  • Practice Workplace Gratitude – A culture of appreciation goes a long way in making library work feel fulfilling rather than draining. Recognizing each other’s contributions can help boost morale.

  • Push for Institutional Support – Advocate for leadership to implement mental health initiatives, structured debriefing sessions after difficult incidents, and employee wellness programs.

Realistic Expectations for Self-Care in Libraries

The idea of self-care is often reduced to spa days or bubble baths, but in reality, self-care is about creating realistic and sustainable habits that fit into your daily life. Library workers need self-care strategies that are both practical and workplace-friendly.

Here are some realistic self-care practices that can be incorporated into the library setting:

  • Micro-Breaks – Even 5-minute breathers between interactions can make a difference.

  • Mindful Transitions – Before jumping from one task to the next, take a moment to reset and refocus.

  • Workspace Comfort – Adjusting your desk setup, adding a small plant, or listening to calming music (when possible) can help create a more supportive environment.

  • Knowing When to Step Away – If an interaction with a patron is escalating, knowing when to involve a supervisor or security is a form of professional self-care.

  • After-Work Decompression – Establishing an end-of-day ritual (journaling, walking, listening to music) can help transition out of “work mode” and into rest.

The Future of Libraries Needs to be a Future of Self-Care

We know that libraries are essential, but so are the people who work in them. A sustainable future for libraries requires not just innovation in services, but a commitment to staff wellbeing. By fostering self-compassion, self-advocacy, supportive networks, and realistic self-care practices, we can build resilient workplaces where library workers can thrive, not just survive.

I really love working in a library. It has the best of both worlds, books, programming, engaging with the public, and working with an awesome library crew. I think we all need to realize that the future of libraries isn’t just about what we offer patrons. It’s about taking a deep look into the care of the people who are working in the libraries.

๐Ÿ’ฌ How do you practice self-compassion in your library work? I’d love to  in the comments!

All the best,

the Compassionate LIbrarian


Saturday, March 8, 2025

Toxic Leadership in Libraries: Would You Work for the Wicked Witch of the West?

Would You Work for the Wicked Witch of the West?













I have always loved The Wizard of Oz. Growing up, I watched the movie every year, and the book remains one of my all-time favorites. One of my favorite characters that fascinated me the most was the Wicked Witch of the West. In many ways I admired her because she was so determined, very powerful, and unapologetically off the hook. But as I got older and entered the professional world, I encountered a different kind of Wicked Witch which I would call the Toxic Leader. 

My first experience with a toxic leader happened many, many years ago, but I still remember the moment vividly. She snapped at me over something minor and in that moment I had to fight back the tears. I headed to the break room as quickly as I could and when I was alone I let the tears fall. She was terrifying, and the most ironic part? I was actually one of her favorites!

What Does Toxic Leadership Look Like?

Much like in the Wizard of Oz, a toxic leader creates an environment filled with fear, manipulation, and control. Here are some telltale signs:

  • Micromanagement & Power Hoarding – Just as the Wicked Witch coveted the ruby slippers, toxic leaders cling to power, unwilling to delegate or trust their staff. Every decision must go through them, no matter how small.

  • Emotional Manipulation – The Wicked Witch wanted Dorothy’s slippers and she used scare tactics and intimidation to try to get them. Toxic library leaders may use guilt, passive-aggressiveness, or even outright hostility to control their staff.

  • Favoritism & Nepotism – In the land of Oz, there was always preferential treatment going on, and in toxic workplaces it is prevalent, certain staff members receive special privileges while others are ignored or set up for failure.

  • Lack of Support & Unrealistic Expectations – Much like when the Wicked Witch sent her minions after Dorothy without a solid plan, toxic leaders demand results without offering guidance, resources, or realistic expectations.

  • Punishing Dissent & Stifling Innovation – The Wicked Witch didn’t take well to opposition, and neither do toxic leaders. Employees who challenge bad policies, offer new ideas, or advocate for improvements may find themselves sidelined or retaliated against.

Here are a few examples of how the Wicked Witch is toxic:

๐Ÿ”ฅ She rules through fear instead of respect
๐Ÿ”ฅ She micromanages (obsessing over the ruby slippers instead of leading effectively)
๐Ÿ”ฅ She uses others to do her dirty work 
๐Ÿ”ฅ She lashes out at others instead of self-reflecting
๐Ÿ”ฅ She can’t handle opposition—When anyone stands up to her she completely unravels


The Impact of Toxic Leadership

Working under toxic leadership can be emotionally and physically draining. Employees in these environments often experience:

  • Burnout and high stress levels

  • Decreased motivation and engagement

  • Fear of speaking up or advocating for change

  • High turnover rates, creating an unstable work environment


How to Survive or Escape

If you find yourself working under the library world’s version of the Wizard of Oz, here are some strategies to help you navigate the storm:

  1. Document Everything – Keep a record of incidents, unfair treatment, and unrealistic expectations. If things escalate, documentation can be crucial.

  2. Find Your Glinda (aka a Support System) – Seek out supportive colleagues, mentors, or professional networks to validate your experiences and provide guidance. 

  3. Establish Boundaries – Toxic leaders thrive on overextending employees. Learn to say no and protect your mental health.

  4. Seek Professional Development Opportunities – If advancement within your current library isn’t possible, consider gaining skills that will help you transition to a healthier work environment.

  5. Know When to Leave – Sometimes, no amount of ruby slippers will make a toxic environment better. If leadership is unwilling to change, seeking employment elsewhere may be the best option for your well-being.


Building a Better Library Culture

Not all library leaders are diabolical villains. Many are compassionate, supportive, and dedicated to fostering a positive workplace. The key to combating toxic leadership is advocating for healthy work environments, recognizing red flags early, and promoting professional development and leadership training that emphasizes emotional intelligence, collaboration, and staff well-being.

If you’ve ever worked under a toxic manager, know that you’re not alone. There’s no place like a healthy library workplace, and sometimes, the best thing you can do is follow your own yellow brick road to a better environment.

Have you experienced toxic leadership in libraries? Share your thoughts in the comments or let’s continue the conversation on how we can make libraries a healthier place for all.


Wishing you well,

the Compassionate Librarian




Wednesday, March 5, 2025

From Passion to Profit: Turning Your Creative Outlets into a Side Gig

As library workers, we are natural lifelong learners, researchers, and creatives. Every day, we engage with information, help patrons discover new resources, and bring communities together. But outside of work, many of us have creative passions—writing, crafting, photography, graphic design, or even teaching workshops.

What if your creative outlets could also become a fulfilling side job?

Turning your skills and interests into a side hustle isn’t just about making extra income. It’s about investing in yourself, finding balance beyond your library job, and embracing the creative energy that likely brought you into the field in the first place.

Why a Side Gig Can Be a Great Fit for Library Workers

  1. Library Skills Are Transferable – Many of the skills we use in the library—research, organization, tech literacy, storytelling, programming—can translate beautifully into a side gig. Whether it’s writing research-based articles, curating book subscription boxes, or creating online courses, you already have valuable knowledge that others may be willing to pay for.

  2. A Way to Channel Your Creativity – Library work can be inspiring, but it can also be draining. Having a creative side project gives you a space to explore your own interests without the constraints of policies, budgets, or bureaucracy.

  3. Financial Flexibility – A little extra income from something you love doing can help with unexpected expenses, savings, or even funding professional development opportunities like conferences or certifications.

  4. Helping Others Beyond the Library – Many library workers go into the field because they love helping people. A side gig—whether it’s tutoring, running a book blog, or offering research assistance—allows you to extend that passion beyond your workplace.

  5. A Fun Exit Strategy (If You Ever Need One!) – While libraries are a calling for many, others may eventually seek a new path. A side gig can be a stepping stone to something bigger, whether that’s full-time freelance work, opening a small business, or transitioning to a different career altogether.

Side Gig Ideas for Library Workers

Not sure what kind of side hustle would work for you? Here are some ideas based on common library skills and interests:

๐Ÿ“š Writing & Editing – Start a book blog, freelance as an editor, or write reviews for publications.
๐ŸŽจ Graphic Design & Digital Art – Design library-related merchandise (stickers, tote bags, bookmarks) and sell them on Etsy or Redbubble.
๐Ÿ“– Book Subscription or Curation Services – Create custom reading lists or offer book subscription boxes tailored to different interests.
๐ŸŽค Podcasting or YouTube Content – Share library life stories, book recommendations, or how-to videos for research skills.
๐Ÿงถ Crafting & Handmade Goods – Sell handmade items like embroidery, knitting, or laser-cut designs.
๐Ÿ“ท Photography & Digital Media – Offer event photography services for local organizations or sell stock photos.
๐Ÿ“ Tutoring & Research Assistance – Help students, writers, or businesses with research skills, resume writing, or academic editing.
๐Ÿ’ป Tech Help & Web Design – Create simple websites, manage social media accounts, or offer digital literacy workshops.
๐Ÿ“š Hosting Virtual or In-Person Workshops – Teach skills like genealogy research, resume building, or creative writing.

How to Get Started with Your Side Gig

  1. Find Your Niche – Think about what you love doing in and outside the library. What do people ask you for help with? What skills do you enjoy using?

  2. Start Small – Test the waters by offering your service to a few people, setting up a small Etsy shop, or creating a blog or social media page.

  3. Set Realistic Goals – Do you want to make extra income, build a new career path, or just enjoy a creative outlet? Define success in a way that works for you.

  4. Make Time for It – Library work is busy, but even setting aside a few hours a week can help build momentum.

  5. Market Yourself (Without Feeling Weird About It) – Start with your network! Share your work with friends, family, and colleagues, and don’t be afraid to talk about what you’re creating.

You Deserve to Create Something for Yourself

Library work can be rewarding, but you deserve to have a creative outlet. Whether you dream of running your own business or just want a hobby that brings in a little extra money, your skills and passions are worth investing in.

So, what’s stopping you? Your side gig could be the perfect way to bring even more joy, creativity, and balance into your life.

Here’s to creativity, passion, and purpose!

the Compassionate Librarian

Sunday, March 2, 2025

The Reality of Library Work: Beyond the Myths

The Reality of Library Work 

by Kimberli Buckley 

March 2, 2025













Beyond the Myths 

Libraries are often seen y the public as quiet, stress-free environments where library staff spend their days reading books and enjoying the silence. While that’s a comforting image, the reality of library work is far more complex. I’d love to explore the common misconceptions we hear everyday, the reality of the emotional toll of public service work, and the deeper truths behind library work. 

Common Misconceptions About Library Work 

Many people assume that working in a library is easy and low-pressure, but those within the field know better. Here are some of the most common misconceptions, along with real-life examples: 

1. Libraries Are Always Quiet – While some libraries do have quiet spaces, many are now bustling community hubs. In an urban public library, staff often manage noise levels from group study sessions, children’s programs, and community events while still providing a welcoming space for all. 

2. You Get to Read Books All Day – Far from it! Library workers juggle tasks such as managing digital collections, assisting patrons with job applications, and teaching computer literacy. For example, in a library, library staff may spend the morning troubleshooting technology issues for seniors and the afternoon coordinate a literacy program for youth. 

3. Libraries Are No Longer Needed  – Really? Despite the rise of digital resources, libraries remain essential. They provide free internet access, free access to books and materials, literacy programs, research assistance, and a safe space for vulnerable community members. For example, many libraries act as a lifeline for residents who lack Internet access at home, have no printers or scanners, and can also give assistance navigating the web, which can help with job searching. Some libraries offer digital eBook collections, where items can be checked out and read on their tablets or phones. Library catalogs are mostly all online now, gone are the old card catalogs. With that in mind, libraries just seem to continue to keep up in this ever-changing  digital world! 

4. Library Work Is Low-Stress – Not so much. Dealing with the public, managing budgets, adapting to changing technology, and addressing social issues like homelessness and mental health crises all contribute to significant workplace stress. A library worker in a busy city branch might find themselves de-escalating a conflict between two patrons while simultaneously troubleshooting a system outage. Many libraries now have to have security on staff to manage the difficult or more challenging patrons.  

The Emotional and Psychological Toll of Working with the Public 

Library workers serve diverse communities, which can be rewarding but also emotionally challenging. Public service roles often involve: 

● Compassion Fatigue – Constantly helping patrons in need, particularly those facing homelessness, addiction, or other crises, can take an emotional toll. Library staff might begin to feel drained after spending each day helping unhoused patrons with their needs, such as finding housing, staying out of the harsh outdoor elements, food, clothing, medical attention, and much more. Unfortunately, the compassion that we feel for our unhoused patrons can take a toll on us and drain our internal batteries down. That’s why taking time to provide self-care for yourself is a must for library workers that frequently work with vulnerable populations.  

● Burnout – Balancing administrative tasks, programming, and frontline service while maintaining emotional energy can lead to exhaustion. Many library workers, for example, may find themselves overwhelmed by increasing demands of tasks to do with low staffing or hiring freezes and with that also comes very limited funding and resources. 

● Conflict Resolution – Library workers often de-escalate conflicts, handle difficult patrons, and navigate emotionally charged situations, adding to workplace stress. An academic librarian might frequently mediate between students and faculty over resource disputes. 

● Mental Capacity – The pressure of meeting community needs with often-limited resources creates an ongoing mental burden. Working solo  in a smaller library, you may need to act as a one-person band, handling the programming, reference, computer help, and clerical work all at one time. 

Discussion of the Common Myths of Library Work 

Beyond individual misconceptions, there are broader myths about the profession that shape public perception: 

● Libraries Are Only About Books – In reality, libraries are community centers offering job assistance, digital literacy training, and mental health resources. Some library staff may spend more time programming and doing outreach. It’s not all about books as some may think. 

● Library Jobs Are Easy To Get – Professional library work sometimes requires specialized degrees such as a Master’s in Library Science, or Library Tech Certificate. Sometime they require experience in skills  from research expertise to program development to crisis intervention.  

● Library Workers Don’t Face Workplace Challenges – This is entirely untrue. Sometimes, the job comes with security concerns, staff shortages, patron complaints, book challenges, and evolving public service demands that require adaptability and resilience. Libraries in more socioeconomically disadvantaged communities struggle with funding, while other libraries in different states might have to navigate political challenges. 

Tips for Handling Overbearing Misconceptions 

For library workers, addressing misconceptions from the public is an ongoing challenge. Here are some ways to handle it effectively: 

1. Educate with Patience – Instead of becoming frustrated, use misconceptions as teachable moments. If someone insists that libraries are no longer relevant, share examples of how they provide essential digital literacy and career development services. 

2. Set Boundaries – Some patrons may expect librarians to be personal tech support, therapists, or social workers. Gently redirect them to appropriate resources while reinforcing the library’s role. 

3. Share Your Personal Experiences – Sometimes, sharing a brief story about a challenging day at the library can help others understand the complexity of the work. 

4. Advocate for the Profession – Public perception shifts when library workers confidently share their expertise and value. Engaging in advocacy efforts through social media or professional organizations can help shift the narrative. 

Final Thoughts 

For many, library work is deeply meaningful and we know from hearing about or experiencing this ourselves. However, there are situations that arise that can be emotionally and mentally demanding. One of the most important things to do is to acknowledge that we are going to hear these myths and misconceptions, but we really need to not take it to heart. Acknowledging these challenges doesn’t diminish our passion that we bring to this field, it actually strengthens our ability to advocate for our own well-being. Someone mentioned to me recently, why aren’t there more television shows or movies about what it’s like to work in a library? It is true, we don’t see that very often. It could possibly be due to all of these myths that people still think we are just sitting around reading books all day at the library and that wouldn't make for a very good show. In contrast to this idea, the movie The Public by Emilio Esteves showcases a lot of what it's like to work at a library. There are a lot of Hollywood stars and some over the top situations, but many of these have occurred at libraries and will continue to happen. 

By debunking the myths or misconceptions, we can foster a greater understanding of the realities of library work while highlighting the incredible impact libraries have on their communities. When we stand up and speak out about the value of libraries, we can ensure that library workers are recognized for their essential contributions and help create a future where we can thrive.

Mindful Communication in the Library Workplace

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